You have the power to decide if you wish to ACHIEVE or RETREAT, because when you speak victory words such as "I CAN", you will attain whatever you set out to do regardless of what others are saying to you. There are many famous entrepreneurs in the world and I believe that you ever you just research any of their live stories , they would tell you that in the beginning of their journey the majority of people told them ----you CAN'T do that! Fortunately, they disregarded these statements and listened to their inner voice, who said, "Oh yes I CAN!"
The key in life is to realize the most important person who speaks to you every day is you on the inside! You need to review your WHY in Life and see if your are on track toward achieving your WHY, or are you on a detour because someone told you, "You CAN'T do that so stop dreaming and just forget about it!" As a personal mindset builder, you need to speak to your inner person and say to yourself, "Today I will take another productive stride!"
Each morning, you need to visualize yourself winning. Forget about how you feel and understand that this does not define you. It is how you think that defines who your are. This is why you must picture yourself winning and progressing. My personal outcome for each day is to build a community of people who we can inspire and motivate all of us to make the world a better place in which to live. This is why I have chosen to share information through my Blog! I figured if I could inpsire you to dream, than my dreams would come to pass. So far, this Law of Thinking and Being is working out for the Best. I have to admit it is not easy, and some days it is still difficult, but guess what -- It is working!
But if you never say you can, then you will never will acheive your dream.
In summary, you need to ask yourself a very honest question, "Am I listening to my victory words from the inside or am letting the outer defeat (loser) words control my outcome in life?".